Why Journal?
Why do I, and other debt coaches like me, advise you to keep
a spending journal? What is the benefit of that?
It isn’t only for you to see where your money is going but
also so you will start to think before you spend. If you know that there is a
record of every cent you spend, somewhere it is going to be listed that you
spent money you didn’t have on something foolish, you may stop yourself. Even
if you are the only one who sees it, you may stop. Or course, you could just not record it but that would be
lying and you don’t want to lie to yourself.
Another advantage of keeping a spending journal is when you
also record how you are feeling when you want to spend money (or do) you may be
able to find your triggers. Did you just get into a fight with your significant
other and now want to go out and spend a lot of money?
If you have sat down and wrote in your spending journal
about this experience – the fight, the feelings it brought up and the desire to
buy something – you can then go deeper.
Where did you learn this behaviour? Did you see it with your parents?
Did you see it repeatedly through the media?
You may never get to the core reason you spend when you are
upset – there are probably numerous reasons you spend when emotional. Just as
there are numerous reasons an alcoholic drinks or a drug addict uses – it is
difficult to pin down to one cause. However, if you are more aware of your
triggers, you can stop the overspending in its tracks.
I first started using a spending journal when I went through
a bankruptcy in 2002. It was one of the requirements and it taught me a lot
about myself. There are times now when I realized my spending is getting out of
control again so I start keeping track. It is difficult to maintain, it takes
discipline. But the rewards are well worth it.
Do you want to learn the 5-step process I used to save myself over $400,000.00 in future credit card interest charges? Then join the 7 Days Towards Financial Stability Challenge either through my Faceboook group or through email. Go to www.karenmagill.com to learn more.
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